Therpeutic Erotic Movement: An Online Community

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Come Back to Your Body. Come Back to You.

Sensuality on YOUR terms

There is a deep, ancient force inside of every woman. On some level, she knows it. She feels it. She knows it even if she doesn't have the words. Sensuality, mystique, aliveness, allure... the words don't matter.

One name for it is EROS : A current of lifeforce that moves us from the inside out guiding us towards our ALIVENESS.

It is the most nourishing force available to women.

With it, we feel rooted, grounded, centered, and clear.

It connects us to our center, our authenticity, and our wild nature.

But tapping into this energy is not always easy or straightforward...

It can feel scary and vulnerable.

We avoid it, sometimes without even knowing why.

We prefer sleep over sex, we would rather hit the yoga mat than do a sensual self-care practice, it can feel like more pressure, one more thing to cross off the to-do list, one more thing to fix.

The resistance to this energy is strong.

Why?

Female sensuality has been labeled dirty and shameful, been degraded, objectified, commodified, and manipulated for thousands of years.

The Conditioning is Real

Women exist in a perpetual and impossible double bind where no matter how we engage with our sensuality, we are in the wrong.

Be sexy but not too sexy.

Too sexy and you're attention-seeding. Not sexy enough and you're invisible/undesirable.

BE desired, but don't desire.

Be wanted, attracted and pursued but your hunger? It's desperate and unfeminine.

Be a good mother, but don't let yourself go.

Too focused on motherhood and you've lost yourself. Too focused on your body and your practices and you're selfish.

These double binds are holding us hostage and robbing us of our vital connection to eros.

You are not broken and you never were.

It's not about fixing yourself, it's about getting free.

These classes are for you if...

Your story around pleasure is "is this as good as it gets?"

You want your sensuality to include ALL of you, not only what you've been told is 'sexy'

It's easier to stay in your head than get into your body during sex

You want pleausure that feels grounded, wholesome, nourishing and soulful

You want to feel at home in your body

You're done performing. Period.

You want to be the main character of your erotic life, without pressure to "fix" yourself

You want sex to come from generosity, not out of obligation or people pleasing

your teacher and guide...

I'm Blaire,

I have taught yoga/movement arts/feminine embodiment for 15+ years and have been a somatic coach for over 10 years. My work fuses biomechanics, somatics, energy medicine, and depth psychology.

TEM is informed by my training in Somatic Experiencing, Sexological Bodywork, functional movement, therapeutic dance, and the Feminine psyche.

My medicine helps women touch their desire, meet their inner depths, embody their sensuality, and feel sexy AF. I was born to do it.

I'm so glad you're here.

A no-pressure, playful space to get curious about eros and pleasure

No force or fixing. No rigid ideas about what sexy or sensual is. No pushing past your bodies wisdom.

Twice weely live classes, a library of classes & a live online Q&A once per month

Therapeutic Erotic Movement

More than a class... it's a reclamation

Everything This Offer Includes

Twice Weekly Live Classes
Monday's @ 3pm Pacific/ 6pm Eastern
Friday's @ 8:30 Pacific/ 11:30 Eastern

A library of replays so you can practice anytime, anywhere

An online community space to connect with women on a similar journey, ask questions, and be seen in your process

Monthly Workshops to deepen your skill set. Topics include:
~boundaries
~relationships & sexual connection
~negative body image
~communicating your desires

Join today for $39/month

One Payment Option

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FEEL AT HOME IN YOUR SKIN

FEEL SAFE IN YOUR PLEASURE

SENSUALITY ON YOUR TERMS

Join Therapeutic Erotic Movement twice per week LIVE

Access all the recordings and replays

Monthly live workshops & Q&A

Online community of women in a safe, judgement free space

The 3 Principles of TEM...

SAFETY IS THE FOUNDATION
Helping your body to feel safe, anchored, and centered is the launching pad for the exploration of eros and pleasure. TEM uses Somatic Experiencing inspired tools to move through many of the roadblocks to eros - performance, freeze and fear - and anchor your body in the felt sense of safety.

As you continue to practice TEM, your sense of being rooted in your center, safe to express yourself authentically, and safe to be sensual will expand into your everyday life.

FROM EXTERNAL ORIENTATION TO AN INTERNAL ONE
We have been conditioned for pleasure and sex to LOOK a certain way. But eros doesn't respond to what we look like it responds to how we FEEL.
This practice helps you open to new depths of desire, pleasure & turn-on by inviting you to be with sensation, digest difficult emotions, and be fully in the present moment.
As your journey with the practice continues, expect to feel more attuned to what YOU want in all aspects of your life.

FEELING IS A PRACTICE
"The erotic is a resource within each of us that lies in a deeply female and spiritual plane, firmly rooted in the power of our unexpressed or unrecognized feeling." ~ Audre Lorde
In TEM, the erotic is understood not as performance or overt sexuality, but as the body’s deep capacity to feel fully alive.
In every woman, beneath conditioning, productivity, and performance, there is a current of sensation, emotion, and truth that becomes available when she allows herself to feel without judgment.
In TEM we welcome feeling rather than try to manage it and it becomes raw power: clarity, desire, creativity and presence.

Frequently Asked Questions

WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW BEFORE JOINING...

How many live classes are included with the community? What else is included?

Upon joining, you have access to two live classes per week: Monday at 3pm Pacific/ 6pm Eastern and Friday at 8:30am Pacific/ 11:30am Eastern.

You also receive immediate access to hours of recorded classes, the monthly workshops/guest teachings, and the community chat.

What do you mean by eros? Do the classes involve nudity or overt sexuality?

Eros is the current of aliveness that can include but is not limited to sexuality. Eros can include our sensations like taste or touch, our platonic friendships, or the pleasure we take in everday thing.

In these classes, we are focused on movements and positioning of the hips in a way that may feel sensual and sexually arousing.

There is never nudity or overt sexuality in the classes.

Do I need to attend the live classes?

Come to the live classes or watch the many hours of recorded content in our library. It's entirely up to you.

When are the monthly live workshops?

The topic, date and time of the workshop will be announced on the 1st of every month.

Is there a time committment when I sign up?

You can cancel your membership at any time. Please note our no refunds policy.

TESTIMONIALS

FROM WOMEN INSIDE THE COMMUNITY...

This practice brings me closer to the quiet, feeling space. Often, there is an opening of sweet, tender tears, or fiery, righteous anger. Always, it is intimate experience of my own, throbbing life force.

I was a bit nervous before class because I throught maybe I am too old and i din't know exactly what to expect because of the word erotic. Each class, I touch something very deep within myself.

I definitely recommend this class.

The greatest gift these classes have given me is a space to come home and be with the parts of myself that need tending. This practice, more than any other, has helped me cultivate self-trust, self-intimacy, and a secure attachment with myself.

Gurjot

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Danica

TESTIMONIALS

FROM WOMEN INSIDE THE COMMUNITY...

"This practice brings me closer to the quiet, feeling space. Often, there is an opening of sweet, tender tears, or fiery, righteous anger. Always, it is intimate experience of my own, throbbing life force."

~Gurjot

"I was a bit nervous before class because I throught maybe I am too old and i din't know exactly what to expect because of the word erotic. Each class, I touch something very deep within myself.

I definitely recommend this class."

"The greatest gift these classes have given me is a space to come home and be with the parts of myself that need tending. This practice, more than any other, has helped me cultivate self-trust, self-intimacy, and a secure attachment with myself."

~Danica

Sensuality FOR you

reclaim your body, your sensuality, & your aliveness